I had to go to my Grandpa’s funeral this past
Wednesday. He was the first of my
grandparents to go home, so this is about as close to death as I have ever
been. The hope of glory has always been
real to me. I’ve looked forward to heaven,
hoped for it, and dreamed of eternity many times before. But until this week, I’m not sure I ever took
quite so much comfort from it, or had to lean quite so heavily on it.
For me—and for my family, too—the week was a weird mixture
of sadness and celebration, loss and worship. We thought a lot about Grandpa’s life, we cried with Grandma, and we
laughed with each other. And above all,
for me at least, it was a week of reminding myself again and again that Grandpa
was finally with his Lord Jesus, and that someday soon he would rise again,
perfect and glorified, and that gave me enormous comfort. Hope is a glorious thing.
I gave the eulogy at Grandpa’s funeral. I talked about how strong he was, how he
taught me, my brother, and my cousins, and probably my dad and uncle, too, what it meant to
be men. I talked about how noble and good he was, how
patient, how committed to his ailing wife. We all startled when they fired the twenty-one guns in his honor, we
wept when they gave the flag to my Grandma, and I felt proud to be the grandson
of such a man. But I also knew that whatever
was good and noble in my Grandpa, none of it was natural to him. It was all given to him by his Savior, and in
the end his good and noble life said far less about him than it did about the
Jesus he loved.
The pastor who preached his funeral said something that will
stay with me for a long time. He said,
“Sometime Sunday night, between 11:00 and 11:30, God finished his earthly work
in Brother Ralph, and He called him home. Brother Ralph fought the good fight. He kept the faith. He finished
his race.” Sometimes you can read a
passage of Scripture all your life, and think you understand it. But then it sows itself in the soil of real
life, in the death of your Grandpa, for instance, and you realize that there’s a
depth there that you never saw before. Grandpa
finished his race. He finished it well,
without stumbling. And O how I want to
follow his example. O how I want to
finish well, too.
At the end of the funeral, when everyone was filing by one
last time, the pianist played the old song, “The Old Rugged Cross.” I hadn’t heard it in years, and it kind of
washed over me for a minute without my giving it a second notice. But then the words started playing through my
mind, and all of a sudden that old song planted itself in my heart and became a
treasure to me.
I’ll cherish that old rugged cross,
Till my trophies at last I lay down.
I will cling to the old rugged cross,
And exchange it some day for a crown!
That song isn’t precious to me just because I associate it now
with my Grandpa. I do, but that’s not
the point. The point is that that old
song expresses the glorious hope that we cling to so tightly as Christians—the
glorious hope that is now sight for my Grandpa. Last Sunday night, my grandfather laid all his trophies down, and once
and for all exchanged that old rugged cross for a crown. And by God’s grace, I will some day do the
same.
This side of eternity, death is still a powerful and heartrending
thing. You can’t hold back that thought when
you see that casket being lowered into that muddy hole in the ground. But death is not as powerful, and it is not
as heartrending, as our hope in Jesus Christ is glorious.
I cried when they buried my Grandpa. But there was joy in the sadness, too. I mourned—I still mourn—but not as one who
has no hope. No, I mourn as one who
knows beyond a shadow of doubt that Jesus died and rose again, and so I know
that God will bring with Jesus those who have died in him. One day, one day soon, the Lord himself will
come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and
the trumpet blast of God.
And then my Grandpa will rise again. He will be changed—in a flash, in the
twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, the
mortal will be clothed with immortality, and once and for all, death will be
swallowed up in victory. And so we will
be with the Lord forever.
So Death, tell me again. Whatever happened to your sting?