"Apart from small groups, is it possible for a church of 300+ to be united in purpose and so connected that all suffer/rejoice together and that all have "the same care for one another"?"
That's what one person asked in the comments thread to a post Matt Schmucker ordered me to write on technology and community. Speaking of Matt... it must be nice to sit around and listen to Sovereign Grace-produced T4G CDs and demand that other people do all the real posting! But I'm not bitter or anything.
The post on technology and community is here for any interested.
The question above is a good question, and it seems to be based on the premise "large is bad for community." At least there is the presumption that beyond certain membership limits, community simply cannot be meaningful. And so much of the writing on "community" carries this tone if not this explicit teaching. To have "community," we're told, we must have small clusters of people that really get to know one another.
But let's take the question in two parts and invite everyone to dive in on this.
1. Is it possible for a community of 300+ "to be united in purpose"? I'd say very definitely "yes." In fact, there are organizations and groups far larger than this that unite in purpose. We read of the early church: "They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching, and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. Selling their possessions and goods, they gave to anyone as he had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts." (Acts 2:42-46a) We're talking a church of a few thousand at this point, certainly larger than 300. And they were united in purpose because they were united in the apostles' teaching. And they met together--not once a week--but every day in the temple courts!
We see other churches exhorted to the same like-mindedness (Phil. 2:2) and unity (Eph. 4:1-6). And praise the Lord, I think there are plenty of living and breathing examples of this kind of common cause among churches today. Many church leaders rather skillfully use their church's statement of faith, covenant, budgets, membership practices, and the Lord's Supper as means for cultivating common cause and unity.
2. Is it possible for a community of 300+ to be "so connected that all suffer/rejoice together and that all have "the same care for one another"?" Again, I would say "yes." That's the very thing that is so striking about 1 Cor. 12:24-25--"God has combined the members of the body and has given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it." This is God's work. "In fact God has arranged the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be" (1 Cor. 12:18). The Father intentionally organizes the body in such a way as to: (a) rule out division in the body, and (b) promote equal concern between the parts. That's what it means to be the body. "The body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form one body. So it is with Christ." (1 Cor. 12:12). And this is God's work. The more I stare at 1 Cor. 12 the more enamored and awed I am of the church.
If we aren't doing this, we aren't being the body. But if we are doing this, God is wonderfully at work, and it probably means we're working very hard at it and that the "equal concern" isn't necessarily expressed in equivalent ways. In other words, "showing equal concern for each other" does not mean that 299 members provide precisely the same response with the 1 member suffering/rejoicing. There may be different responses and yet equal concern. And, I've seen this maintained in a congregation of 500. That congregation had an active small group ministry, and lots of good things happened in them. But the members owned the whole body, and the equal concern was expressed in things like the evening service, table fellowship (which we see in Acts 2:46b), individual acts of care and service, as well as coordinated acts of empathy and love. It takes all of that, but it's very doable with God's help and the blessing of His Spirit.
I'm convinced that one of the reasons our churches aren't as strong as we would hope is that so few Christians have actually had this experience in a local church and consequently so few expect to see it happen or to contribute to it happening.
Well, that's my quick two cents. Others??